The topic I intend to touch here is not new. There are articles, videos and blogs that are relatable in many but I was not influenced by any until I experienced this thing very closely in couple of months.
This thinking and argument may differ with many individuals and people of different age, and with people from different part of the world with different culture.
This is not directed to any person in specific but the words herein are my feelings from my point of view.
Even the genius who created alphabets and words has defined the male gender with three letter word as MAN while female as WOMAN, two additional letters.
The difference starts with the letters and when we start to do the comparison, it gets clear that we Woman have additional element in comparison in all formats. From the Emotional strength, to love we give; to care we take, to sacrifices we do, to pain we take and patience we keep.
I actually don’t have to give details but for some emotionally blind and deaf humans. I wish them good reading and pray good recovery.
I always wondered, Why is it that woman have to leave her parents house and come and live with husband?
Why it is that Woman is the one who is changing her family name with the guy’s one?
Why it is that woman is the one who is mainly held responsible in keeping the house and for cooking for the whole family? I have not got a convincing answer to the universal questions above, but the only I realized. All the above things when you see closely are the customs and traditions created or made by humans, the very mortal souls of this society.
But there are certain things when I think about like;
Why do only woman can give birth to a baby?, Why do women’s have a quite, gentle voice and tender skin, why do women’s who look physically weak from outside, have extreme capacity to take pain, not to forget how bad the pain of monthly menstrual cycle can get sometimes or always, why is love of mother always greater than the love of father.
In cat and mouse race of the world we have forgotten the habit to understand , express, compromise,share and make but have developed a behavior to ignore, suppress, being uncharitable and break.
May be the creator had different idea in mind.
When he gave woman a soft and tender body he gave her strength to take the extreme of the extreme pain while he expected a man to be Respectful with the personality he have.
When he gave woman a soft voice he gave her the beauty to charm and satisfy her man while he expected a man to use his physical strength to take care of her from evil and bad external forces.
When he gave her mind full of mood swings he gave her a heart that cannot measure the love it hold and sacrifices it does in life while he expected man to be pragmatic.
There is a very popular wisdom quote which explains, relationship are like wheels of a cycle, both wheels have to move together to move forward so true!!
Dear MAN, similar to the drive wheel of a car we have allowed you to be the drive wheel of the relationship, thinking you will take the car in right direction and care, and we play a role of trailing wheel which provides balance and stability to the car.
There are many jokes which talk about how difficult and impossible it is to understand a woman. The answer to that joke I believe is very simple –
Man first you have to keep your ego UNDER (low) and STAND next to your women with shoulder to shoulder in life and then you will understand a WOMAN.