Fake Friends believe in rumors, Real friends believe in you!

There is a saying “A friend of everyone is friend to none”. This is so true!

Recently I came across a random post which actually kind off triggered me to write this. I am sure there are many of among reading this who somewhere would have experienced such situations at some point of time.

The story is about a girl who went on a honeymoon with her husband.  Destination travel is any girls dream. The girl, who also comes from same planet where Facebook, Instagram and Watsapp were invented, did post some pictures about her travel and destinations.

Who needs an enemy when she had a friend who downloaded her pictures from social site and posted in his male friends group and rest needs no explanation.

The situation has actually put me in kind of a dilemma.

Dilemma about arguing on the matter Is this what a friend do?

Or this is common in environment of social networking.

The latter don’t hold strong when I think about the Muddha(matter).

Muddha(matter) I want to make is very simple and straight… Apes or Donkeys don’t have facebook or twitter account, humans do! Brain and intelligence is what distinguishes us from them.

I am sure we all have one such friend in out Watsapp group and Facebook account.. And we all love such friends knowing the kind of person they are. So I would take his side as well.

The girl was wrong when she decided to wear a bikini on beach because may be the family people of that friend of her have taught him or they wear bikini in social functions and not in beach. She got that wrong!

May be that friend is someone who closes his eyes when he sees Deepika kissing Ranveer, Ranbir or bothJ.  May be he is someone who don’t watch Hollywood movie either.

She is an adult, mature and is in an international destination with her husband, but she could have asked that friend what he would have liked her to wear and post that would have made him happy.

I am sure he was still happy with her bikini pictures but little more jealous with her super cool pictures 😉

It’s really difficult to comprehend the situation when I see that such things are done by people who are educated and well placed.

Someone said very right, with education you get grades, with knowledge and experience you get wisdom.

If you don’t like me and still watch everything I do, Bitch then you are a fan 😉

 

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52 thoughts on “Fake Friends believe in rumors, Real friends believe in you!

  1. poetlou says:

    when i was growing up i created my own philosphy on life which is ;
    ” friends i don’t have any , acquaintainces many ”
    because i found that the ones that normally stab you in the back
    is the one you least expect . ” ( but that;s my own thought )

    Like

  2. Susan Leighton says:

    Hi Sally,
    After reading your post, I started to become wistful for the days when everything wasn’t so interconnected. While I appreciate technological advancements, I agree with the adage,”Familiarity breeds contempt.” Keep writing!

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    • Sallyporte says:

      Hi Susan,
      Thank you for the admiration.
      I believe these are the people who make friendship for benefits and not for feelings.

      Certainly, It’s better to have none than false friends in tonne!

      Technology is good, it has allowed us to outreach..technology can be a tool but only when people are true, chords are right.

      Like

  3. saaranshsinghpundir says:

    ‘Someone said very right, with education you get grades, with knowledge and experience you get wisdom’ … nailed it .

    Wonderful post….I wonder what make people to b so atrocious and even they hide under being friends….. adore the post

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  4. Dainty M says:

    I really like this line ‘If you don’t like me and still watch everything I do, Bitch then you are a fan’ Lol, Some friends can be really funny and childish though. I don’t think what the friend did was right. 😦

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    • Sallyporte says:

      Hi Dainty,
      When we are born we don’t choose our parents, relatives, but friends are someone whom we choose.
      So according to me friendship is very amazing relationship. For rest we have Facebook and Insta😄

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  5. gillswriting says:

    Very true and captures the spirit of today’s modern issues. But believe me those issues have been around for thousands of years just in different forms. We all learn to be circumspect in choosing our friends through bad experiences. Unfortunately it still happens when you are a mature person (in other words old like me haha!). Thanks for the support of my humble blog xxxx

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    • Sallyporte says:

      Hi Gills,
      Its totally true that such kind of things are pretty common and not new. But I dont support the fact that one who downloaded the pics and is sharing in other groups was kinda known person..like a friend.
      You are hurt the most when someone who is close to you does something nasty other wise you are never affected..isnt it?
      Thank you..keep visiting:-)

      Liked by 1 person

      • gillswriting says:

        Exactly Sally and unfortunately it is usually those who we considered to be friends that turn on us the most. However there are the true and good friends whose worth is more valuable than all the monies or material goods in the world. xxx

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  6. Lisa Meister says:

    I agree wholeheartedly with you. There is an assumption that if you put something out on social media then anyone can have the right to exploit it. But even in social media, people deserve their privacy. What is for friends is not for the public, and I hope your friend dropped this guy out of her circle.

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    • Sallyporte says:

      Hi Lisa,
      Exactly..thats why we have copyright things for.
      Legitimately it was wrong in first place to download and share without permission. Indeed such people should be blocked from account.
      Truly said ..In life we never loose friends we only learn who the TRUE ones are!

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      • Lisa Meister says:

        Yeah, but with modern technology there has to be an easier way. Maybe some kind of super glasses that you wear and when someone untrustable comes up there is a big X that blinks over their face until you get away from them. I should have been an inventor.

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